Monday, October 25, 2010

Dishes, a neccesary evil in cooking

About a half an hour ago I stood in my kitchen totally bewildered at the amount of dishes in my sink. Didn't I just do them? Do the multiply in there?  I had just cleaned out the fridge which of corse added quite a few miscellaneous pots and dishes. Anyway I grabbed my dish washing gloves and got started. Now you have to know that I am not quirky about a lot of things but I am about touching wet food; I hate it. And I hate the way my hands smell after using those yellow dish gloves. So I have disposable ones. I know. Not very eco friendly. But I will plant some extra trees this spring to offset the plastic. Ok I know I'm reaching on that one... so in walks my sweet faced 9 year old. "Can I help you mom?" the mere suggestion of it nearly knocks me out of my pink slippers. Im standing with my hands in scalding hot water. Not much to do I tell him, but i find a few little things to help me with. Soon he grabs a notebook and asks if he can sit and draw with me. In no time he has a whole page of little stick figures in battle. I suggested adding a bow and arrow. The look he gave me was priceless.I felt like super-mom. Needless to say I washed the sink for a few extra minutes. Made sure that the stove was sparkling clean. If standing there meant a few more precious moments with my ever growing son I was willing to scrub every corner of that kitchen. Moments that are becoming fewer and farther in between. Between play dates HOMEWORK (ugh) and sports I find time alone with him far to infrequent. My heart was warm with love and affection as he sat in that chair; he didnt go in to watch tv. Or downstairs to play wii. He came to draw with his mother.  So I guess from now on maybe I wont think of the dishes as some dreaded chore but rather a golden opportunity to  be with him alone and to freeze that memory of  my sweet son whom  I adore and is growing more quickly than I had ever imagined possible. Me with my dish gloves and him with his stick figures carrying bow and arrows. I love you babyjack.

1 comment:

  1. Love it : ) I think about the time when Ali will be too big to want to hang out all the time (especially when she seems attached to my right leg, lately) and it makes me sad...

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